No talks about commitment
Talks about commitments are always done when he sees hisfuture with you. If no, he is just using you for the time being.
Not letting you meet his friends and family
He is not interested in introducing you to everybody, whichmeans he does not want to stay with you for long.
Financially dependent on you
For a grown man it is important to serve his own stomach. Ifhe does not do so and be dependent on you, he is clearly using you.
Not opening up too much
He does not open up too much and keeps secrets which mean heis not a loyal person.
Your friends don’t like him
Your friends warn you regarding his nature. This means theycan sense that something is wrong with him.
Your feelings do not matterHe does everything according to his wish and convenience, this means your feelings does not matter.
He always keeps secrets and this shows he does not want toshare his feelings and what is going around him with you.
Not expressing his love often
If he does not express his love often, it shows he is notinterested in being with you and is just using you.
He does not calls unless he has some work
Calling only when he needs you and it is about his own work means, you are being used and there is no love. As, if he loves, he will call to know if you are well or not and to know about your whereabouts.
He stares other girls
If he is in love with you, he will not stare at other girlsand would not make comments regarding them. If he does so, there is only lustand not love.
He gets physical often
If he loves you, being physical does not matter. If he talksall about being physical every time then love is no more. This is a sign that youare being used.